James Abiba
I
was teaching Mathematics from the 9th to the 12th grades
at Fort Mead High School in Maryland. I had to teach five
groups of students daily. Each group consisted
of about forty students.
James Abiba was not enrolled in any of these classes.
He contacted me through one of my students seeking
permission to see me.
I readily agreed. He asked me a few basic questions
about Islam. I briefly answered them.
Later he came with more questions. I asked him, “Are these
questions from your Social Studies classwork?” He said that he happened
to read a book about Islam in his school library.
It made him somewhat curious about Islam. I made him aware of
the conflict between religion and state and hence, the
government school was not the right place for such detailed
discussions. I
invited him for a snack in a fast-food restaurant. We had a
very positive discussion there. James was only sixteen
years old at that time.
Nevertheless,
we had several sessions in the fast-food restaurant. Our discussions were
frank and productive.
He wanted to see the place of Islamic worship. I showed him a very
old house used as a mosque in the neighboring town, Laurel,
Maryland. I
demonstrated to him how the Muslims pray. He liked
the simplicity and direct communication between the person
and Almighty God.
James
told me that he wanted to become a Muslim. I explained to him that
it was a very simple process. However, I warned him
about the consequences of reverting back to disbelief. Thus, I advised
him to take more time in educating himself about Islam
before becoming a Muslim.
After
a few days he insisted that he must embrace Islam. Praise be to God he
did. Now
there were more challenges ahead for both of us. I had a job to do.
I had to pick him up every Sunday from his house
to bring him for afternoon prayer in the mosque. During his stay in the
mosque I taught him the Arabic alphabet which he mastered
very fast. James
was a musician and was very keen to learn the Adhan(call
to prayer). He
soon became the Muadhin(caller to prayer) in the
mosque. I
noticed that the Adhan was highly effective
from a new Muslim. Gradually, he started reading the Quran
in Arabic.
One
day I went to pick him up from his house. I was surprised to see
him in Saudi dress from head to toe. This shocked me since
my students, his parents and friends were already talking
quietly about my regular visits to his house. I told James, “You do
not have to create this scene. A Muslim can pray in
American clothes also.”
He said to me, “Mr. Ahmad, your imaan(faith)
is weak.” I
asked him, “Are your parents upset with these clothes?” He said, “No. They are
very understanding.
My mother even cooks halal food for me daily.”
This gave me some consolation.
James
was still in high school. He approached me and
wished to change his name to a Muslim name. I cautiously remarked
that with his present name he would have easier communication
with his peers in order to explain Islamic values to them.
They may avoid him if he took a Muslim name. James said sharply again,
“Mr. Ahmad your faith is weak.” His new name
is James Huseyin Abiba.
Here
I would like to mention a remarkable feature of American
society. Many
American youth try to seek temporary jobs to offset the
expenses of their further education. Although some parents
are rich and they hold a high status in society, their
children do not feel shy to seek even a menial job for
this purpose. The
youth do not hide this activity; they very proudly share
it with their friends, relatives and neighbors. These jobs give the
youth an exposure to the ‘ups and downs’ of the real life.
This enhances their maturity and sense of responsibility. In the case of James,
he was looking for a summer job after his high school
graduation. My
wife trained him as a medical receptionist and appointed
him in her medical clinic. Her medical practice
was new and not very busy. As such,
James had plenty of time to read Islamic books there.
James
used to observe Eid(a Muslim celebration) with
my family. One
year Allah brought me from America to Makkah Mukarrama
and Madina Munawwara during the month of fasting and Eid. I was, however, concerned
about James’ loneliness in America. On my return to the
U.S.A., I immediately inquired about James’ well-being
from some brothers in our mosque. They enthusiastically
said, “He participated in many activities during Ramadhan
and even stayed in the mosque day and night during the
last ten days of Ramadhan observing itikaf.” They added, “He is always
ahead of us in practicing Islam.” James was very humble
and never mentioned anything to me about his itikaf.”
I pray that Allah accept James’ sincere submission
to Him.
He
went on to college and graduated majoring in Islamic History.
He was a well-known leader of the Muslim Student
Association on his university campus in College Park,
Maryland. He married a Muslim
girl from India.
Both of them started teaching at the
Universal Islamic School in Chicago.
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